…And everyone should know them. Sex education should not be completed after high school when most of the knowledge you could have gained was less applicable, and most of the conclusions reached came from porn. Unfortunately!
In a recent discussion on one of the popular media, people around the world shared what it would be like to know about sex, which would spare them unnecessary inconvenience and shame.
Condoms can’t protect you from everything
Some sexually transmitted diseases can only be transmitted through skin contact, even if you use a condom (for example, herpes, some types of human papillomavirus, etc.). These are very similar infections, and testing for them is not a regular check-up with a doctor, but you have to ask for it yourself.
You should urinate after intercourse
We were never taught that we should urinate after sex. You can read about it in many places, but you probably thought you don’t need to rush to the toilet immediately after the end of the relationship. However, once a lesson is learned.
If you don’t urinate, you can get a urinary tract infection – which happens more often than you might think. At first, there were no symptoms, however, one night, in the middle of the night shift, I went to the toilet and I immediately realized that something was happening. My right side started hurting.
Around 10 pm I drove to the hospital, admitted myself and did the tests – it turned out I had a kidney infection. They filled my bag with strong antibiotics and other medications, I must have been lying on the infusion for two hours that night, and then two weeks under antibiotics followed. I was definitely scared.
Foreplay is crucial, especially for women
Sex is more than just an act – and involves so many elements that take place around it. Foreplay makes a big difference. Don’t rush if you care about how your partner feels. Pay attention to the development of the situation. Don’t let your guide be porn, but talk to your partner about what he likes. Communication is important. Why are you forcing me to choose a password, if I can make a combination myself?
Not everything is as it seems… in porn
It is important to know that what you see in porn movies is a fantasy and that if you try recreating something from what you have seen, you will usually end up disappointed, and often physically injured. If something looks good to you, it probably means you are disgusted while doing it, and if it feels good, then it looks bad on camera. That’s how porn movies work, mostly.
Then I stopped trying to record “doggies” and focused on doing what we both enjoy, and yes, you will never record really good sex. That’s why the amateur category on porn sites looks completely unattractive to viewers – it’s about partners who really enjoy sex, and it seems pointless to viewers. ”
Consent is important
Although this is completely clear – it is important to emphasize that vocal, clear and loud consent is important when it comes to sex, and not just the absence of the “no”. So, if someone doesn’t say no, it doesn’t mean it’s consent. Pay attention to that.