This is the advice that can be of great use to boys. Namely, the practice has shown that girls should not be pressured. Don’t make them go out with you, go for coffee, kiss them…
Why?
Sometimes it happens to you that you like someone so much that you want literally everything from him, and right away. And then you start squeezing it. The first thing that the person will notice is that you are becoming a little hard, and the second – you have to keep in mind that some of your friends, acquaintances, colleagues have already pressured that same girl for the same reasons why you did it. And very strong.
You are not the first
If she is desirable and good for those things, to go for a coffee with her or to get in a relationship with her later, it must have already occurred to someone before you. And those people were pressuring her, don’t doubt it. Because of all this, women are somehow programmed to automatically withdraw. Women don’t handle pressure and they don’t like it.
Why does countering yields results?
What can hardly be clear to men is that they become more and more interesting and interesting if they do not put pressure on a woman. If you have a friendly approach and let her know that you like that girl or woman, but you don’t insist on practically anything, she will light a lamp in her head. You will become a magnet that inevitably attracts her.
That person will ask himself, why don’t you insist then, when everyone has already done so. He will ask himself what is suddenly wrong now when you do not want to insist on anything, not even on that most ordinary coffee. Think about it.
What’s going on in her head?
In a woman’s head, then, it begins to develop through questions that lead her to start chasing you, not running away. Use all the masculine charm you possess, to tell her in a nice but discreet way how incredibly attractive she is to you, but to keep everything within the bounds of “friendship.”
It can be really interesting and attractive to women. Then she will ask herself, why did you tell her that she is so attractive and you did nothing to win her over? Women are, by nature, complex creatures, which are very difficult to satisfy. But look at it all as a kind of game and an introduction to a much more serious relationship.
No one has yet been able to decipher the female mind, but what is a fact is that such and similar things work. Although men will never know how and why. After all, don’t try to penetrate a woman’s temper. You will not succeed in this, as no one before you has done. Nor he will.