You meet someone you like at first sight, and after a little conversation, the first sparks are there. Excitement is present – finally, there is someone with whom you “clicked”. Make sure you want to go in the same direction. However, as the weeks go by, she begins to treat you more like a friend than as a potential partner. Wondering where it went wrong? Some women openly shared what it was that made them lose their romantic interests in the meantime.

What is it that drives them away from you?

So, what are the things that simply “drive” a woman away from you? Pay attention to the following situations, and ask yourself if you have found yourself in any of them by any chance. Let’s go, in no particular order.

• When you come to them with a problem, and they turn it into a story about themselves.
• If you are constantly made to feel sorry for them. I felt bad and I cared so much for him, for so long, that when some emotions were supposed to appear – they were gone.
• When they start distracting you from other friends of yours, to get your attention or those who refuse to admit to themselves that you feel uncomfortable and guilty and drag you into doing things you don’t want to do.
• I once went out with a guy who talked 90% of the time, of which 85% of the time he talked about how much money he earned, how much he spent on his ex-wife, about all the nice cars he had… Ironically, I picked him up, because he had no transportation. He was justifiably confused why I didn’t want to spend the night with him when I went to throw his ass home. I never saw him again.
• Indecency and chewing with your mouth open. I don’t have to look at his tonsils while eating, it’s disgusting.
• Poor dental hygiene and too little effort during sex. If you’re in sex like a dead fish, I’m not interested, bye.
• Recently, a guy joked that I was his “Sugar Mom” and that he cooked and cleaned for me so that I could let him collapse on my couch for free. I dried quickly.
• When they start constantly giving false compliments or constantly asking for attention or treating you as their personal therapist.
• Spitting. If the situation is urgent, like he swallowed a bug, I’ll figure it out. If he just spits on the ground like that? Disgusting. Something that will cool me down instantly.

Do you recognize yourself in any of these claims?

If the answer is positive, urgently consider yourself, your behaviour and your attitude towards women. There is obviously something wrong with that, and be aware that modern ladies will not adapt to the whims, behaviour or social norms of current men.

He will prefer to look for his equal elsewhere and will forget you after the first-morning shower. So, mind your head and a little more attention to the ladies. They deserve it, no matter how they treat you. They will soften over time, and you will get what you really want. Good luck!