People who often participate in sexual games such as attachment, discipline, sadism, masochism, and maybe both are mentally healthier than people who refuse to do so, at least according to new research by experts in the field of sexual medicine.
The researchers asked 902 (correct) respondents who participated in some sex games to fill out mental health testing questionnaires. Compared to those who had ordinary sex, it turned out that they were less neurotic, more open and confident in their relationship and also had a high level of well-being, ie satisfaction with their life.
Why is it so?
Scientists speculate that “seasoning” games in the bedroom can help you fine-tune your sexual desires and share them with your partner. In return, you get a sense of comfort as far as your overall identity is concerned.
Take it easy
However, you do not have to instantly jump into complete sadomasochistic bondage, to feel the benefits of it. Any kind of experimentation can lead to higher levels of well-being and intimate satisfaction. Start with something light, such as punching your girlfriend in the buttocks. And here’s how to do it: Aim a little lower part of her ass, don’t hit the top first. Men often make a mistake, so they hit too high, and this can actually cause a lot of pain since those parts are closer to the bone. You will engage more nerve endings if you make contact with a part that is meatier, so to speak.