What can we understand about guys through text messages? From the way the message is composed and therefore read, it is not difficult to conclude whether the guy wants a girl for serious or just for a combination and fun. Therefore, you will have children with some of them, and with others, you will mostly waste time. So, it is not harmful to know how to recognize these details. So what suits you?
What we desire to emphasize at the very beginning is that we cannot be exclusive. There are always differences and you should remain that in mind. Men are different, and each of them has something different in mind. For example, they can be harmful at writing messages, so to interpret it as disinterest, they can be nervous around you and misinterpret it, and they can be smeared and create a message so that we think it is a serious relationship, and he just wants to have a good time with you.
What if you don’t care about him?
The guy, when you are not interested in anything other than possibly good sex, from time to time, all conversations and correspondence, will turn in the direction of sex. This is so obvious, but not for girls in love. Why? The answer is straightforward. When we desire something very much, we see only positive sides in the whole story. For that reason, a girl can interpret messages like “how beautiful you are” and “you have a good ass” or “uh what would I do to you now” as an interest in a reveller relationship. A moment ago because she requires it.
She wants a relationship, and she projects that on him, so she sees in him that he is as interested in the relationship as she is. Basically, these messages include every turn of the story to sex, sending explicit photos, nicknames that border on the vulgar. Also, this includes not caring if you feel pleased with what he is doing. One thing is if you maintain an agreement with someone how you will address and call yourself, and the other thing is when he pulls you into something you are not comfortable with. And he didn’t even ask you if it was okay and how you felt, and that he enormously minded how you felt about it.
Details are important
The emphasis is on this “he really cares” because he is merely moved in getting what he intended. If you can’t maintain communication with a guy without some sexual connotation, it is clear to you why he is there and what he wants from you. He tells exactly what interests him. Everything else bothers him.
This is the reason why men often give up on nice girls. Because they’re purely here for sex. Naturally, not everyone. Rare girls deserve such conversations, and boys with a certain intention are bored. They have no intention or will to waste time, so romantic and meaningful conversations bother them. As soon as they realize that their plans will not go so fast with a certain girl, they simply run away in search of a new victim.
What about the good guys?
The guy you are interested in as a potential girl will talk to you differently. He will require information about you and will be on a constant research expedition. He merely requires a relationship with you and needs to get to know you better. They will ask you a lot of questions, about how you got the first day, what you are interested in, through the fact that they will mark each of your topics as important and talk about it.
What is the purpose of that? Simply, revealing the facts about you and keeping your attention. Among other things, that’s why he will obtain the first to send you messages, unlike guys you don’t really care about. Such guys are the first to send messages when they are horny and when they firmly believe that they can achieve something with you soon, but the owners do not send messages first. It often happens that I do not respond to your messages, and you then explain why this is so.
How to recognize a liar?
What did he mean by that? What game is he playing? The answer is, again, simple. He doesn’t engage in any game. Not to let him communicate with you. However, it should not be neglected that some play such games. Like, I’ll pretend to be uninterested, because they saw on the Internet that it should be like that, or some “expert,” advised them that way. Such guys are very immature, but not in a way that they are childish, but in a way that they have no idea what they are doing. They have nothing else to offer, they just don’t have confidence, so they have to be stupid, and after that game, they don’t have the recent move.
After all of the above, the question arises, does it? Do beautiful girls want to be in a relationship with such a guy? Guys who merely desire you for sex are pretty boring because they don’t want to be interesting. They change the need to invest in your relationship. Naturally, some are naturally interesting, witty people, and that is why this is not an exclusive story that can be applied to absolutely any person. For the most part – yes.
Are there any scammers?
And some are anointed, who have done the identical thing a thousand times, so they recognize exactly what they are doing; which song to send, which smiley, which sweet sentence. But how to recognize and separate from each other?
Guys who are interested in you will try to make it interesting for you. And in a way that will debate topics that interest you right now. Also, they will constantly look for an excuse to call you. They will constantly find some important reason why they sent you a message and so on. If you analyze his messages and see his efforts in them, that’s an excellent sign. If he cares, he’ll try to entertain you. It’s very simple because they know that they can keep someone’s attention only by having fun with that person in their company.
The other team of men we talked about, these anointed ones, in addition to not being able to deal with you, can even deliberately try to be boring! The reason is that they do not want to complicate their lives, by falling in love with them. In this way, they try to enable you to know that you are to blame for everything you do. They didn’t give you any reason for that. And the excellent ones will send you messages for good morning and good night because they will want to be the first ones you think of when you wake up and the last thing you think about before you fall asleep. For the same reasons, they will ask you how you feel, because they want to be important to you. Also, they will give you nice nicknames. They will do everything in their power to make you as comfortable as possible in their company.
What’s the point?
To simplify. They will try to preoccupy your time so that you don’t think of anyone but them. If the “writer” of the message is bad at it, he recognizes it, and he’ll want to see you if he doesn’t already get along with the messages. He will certainly not risk overlooking you because he writes boring and unimaginative messages. Start with yourself. Would you risk being separated from someone you like by something you are not good at? There are people whose main strength is their presence and charisma, and they do not cope with messages. They know that, and that’s why they will insist on phone calls and seeing each other. They will probably tell you that they are not good at writing messages. Vice versa. If his messages are boring and bad, and he doesn’t ask you to see each other, that’s the blackest category women try to interpret. But don’t bother with it.
He is either not moved enough, or something else is happening in his life. The guys you are interested in will send you lengthier messages or lots of short ones. The point is that he will invest his time in correspondence with you. And here, of course, it is clear that we are investing time in what is important to us. Short messages or messages that arrive sporadically, are a clear sign that you are not worth their time.
Turn the matter in your favour
Those who don’t care too much will give up on you as soon as things don’t go their way. You send too many messages that require their engagement, you don’t want to go to bed with them quickly, and there isn’t that sexual spark that only interests them… And what can you do? You can always turn things around for your own benefit, by starting to behave identically to him. He doesn’t answer, you don’t answer, he sends a message once in three days, and you answer in three days, so you’ll see what happens.
You have turned things around in your favour by making you less engaged around him. And when you are rarely engaged about something, you learn to live without it, and that becomes irrelevant to you.
Things that we deal with intensively are significant to us. And maybe this is your attempt to get the attention of someone who rarely sends you messages at this point. Surely you know that you appreciate more the things you had to work harder on? Well, your attempts remain your effort. And he suddenly becomes precious, just because you work hard all the time. Stop making something precious out of it.
Another benefit that can come from this is that he starts to get more engaged because he realizes that you are slipping out of his hand. At that time, he has to invest more in you if he wants to possess you in his life. So it may happen that you suddenly become precious to him because now he is more concerned with you and invests more in you.
The third benefit is that it completely stops occurring, and if this doesn’t seem excellent to you, it’s actually very good because you know what you have on the other side and you’ll stop spending your time on it. No matter how young you are and that you have a handful of time in front of you, there is no point in performing it to someone who does not deserve it. Preferably, choose to dedicate your time to someone who reciprocates in some way. Well, maybe to themselves, if there is no one worthwhile nearby at the moment. Think about that!