If you have never tried any of these methods in the bedroom before, experts advise how to get the most out of them (while keeping everyone safe)
Blade and sticks
Whether you like to be spanked, or you want to take part in a slightly harsher “punishment”, you must consult your partner well before embarking on this type of adventure.
Both sides must agree, especially if it is a somewhat rougher game. It is also good to have a secure word (some kind of password) that would immediately suspend the action. Ideally, that word should be something you would never say during sex, so as not to cause confusion.
When you are done, it is obligatory to deal with the skin to avoid unwanted consequences.
For maximum security, whipping and tapping should primarily be applied to somewhat “meatier” areas. Start slowly and gently, stroking your partner’s skin, and then continue to pat lightly with your fist.
If your partner likes this, you can slowly progress to something stronger, but remember – if you hear a sure word – stop!
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How to choose a toy?
When it comes to selecting the “tools” for your game, usually everyone pulls on chains and whips, but if you use these toys with too much enthusiasm, you can inflict serious injuries on your partner.
So, while you or your partner are getting used to the rough game and this new feeling, it may be better to start with just your fists. After that, you can slowly progress towards the shoulder blades, and then – the imagination is the limit.
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If, on the other hand, you want something more similar to a whip – maybe it’s best to start with slightly softer whips, which are a great replacement for much more painful whips.
Not only can this type of adventure make a new connection between partners, but it can also launch your orgasm into the stratosphere: so what are you waiting for? Equip yourself!