If you want to win over the lady in question, do your best to enchant her friends. Establish a good relationship with them and they will become your friends as well.

Check the situation

Observe their behaviour carefully. If they tilt their heads towards each other as they talk, it usually means that they are of a closed type and that it will not be easy for you to enter their confidential circle.

You will do best if, like you, they are filming the surroundings and lurking for an opportunity to talk. It is also desirable that your chosen one be surrounded by at least a few friends so that, if you manage to “separate” her, it would not happen that some of them are left alone.

Take action

A firm but not too strong handshake and a short introduction “Hello, I’m…” is quite OK when you meet only one member of the fairer sex, but if you try introducing yourself to the whole group, you will act as a hardened politician.

Take advantage of the circumstances and if they play billiards, for example, stand next to the jukebox and offer to fulfil their musical desires. After that, they will definitely want to meet you.

Follow the leader

When you find out which of her friends has the main say in society, attack her first. When you first embrace shyness from the periphery of the circle, it could happen that her protective friends will quickly throw you out of the game. And the topics of conversation?

Follow the rules for 30 days. Don’t make bad topics related to what happened more than a month ago. Rather, talk about what is current or yet to happen.

Also check: The leader

Imitate movements

Show your interest by body movements and never by touching or imposing. If she nods, nod, if she smiles, smile too. When he turns his head towards the interlocutor, you also turn towards him.

Make an effort to find out what topics attract her and lead the conversation to anything that might interest her. Do you like Mexican food? Burritttoooo! You fixed one, there are three left.

The final

Finally, ask the young lady you were looking at if she would join you at the bar or go to the jukebox with you to choose the next song together. Based on her answer, you will be able to know what you are up to.

If she really likes you, she will be glad that you made an effort first round her friends to finally stop at her. Thanks to that, they will not have the impression that you are putting pressure on her, and you will feel more confident in their company in the future.