In line with the theory that more sex leads to a deeper connection between the partners, which then results in even more sex, one couple announced that wanting to spark again between them, they intend to conduct a “one-month sex challenge” during which each day have some sexy activity.
The whole idea is to return the passion to bed because this whole process renews the sexual life and inflames the excitement and attraction between the partners. They hope they will also start their love life from the lethargy he fell into due to the routine of everyday life.
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The rules of the challenge are very simple
Rules can be changed. It is a party, not a legal document. If either partner doesn’t want to do something, anything to anyone. The whole challenge begins with mutual consent. And nothing is done by force.
- Each partner can change or replace activities for two days of their choice before the start of the challenge, after which there are no more changes.
- Each of the partners can veto for two days, during which he can choose only sex and skip any activity.
- Other activities can be added to the list.
- Breaks are allowed for permanent menstruation, holidays and business commitments.
- If one day is missed, a new one is added, but the challenge must not last longer than 40 days.
- The goal of the challenge is to go beyond the usual framework and try something new. If either partner doesn’t like anything and has spent his two days vetoing or changing activities, he can “borrow” it from his partner. In that case, the partner who has given his veto has the right to choose a new activity.
- Condoms and other contraceptives are used as agreed.
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And this is what the whole challenge looks like
Day 1: Make love anytime, just not before bed.
Day 2: Try new poses, study the video with poses from the Kama Sutra together and choose the one you like.
Day 3: Sex twice a day.
Day 4: Read an erotic magazine or book before bed, and read one story aloud.
Day 5: Sex in the shower.
Day 6: Mutual full body massage before sex.
Day 7: Speed sex that will last 10 minutes or less.
Day 8: Excursion. Sex in the park or car.
Day 9: Sex in an armchair or on the couch, face to face and back turned.
Day 10: Sensual oil massage before sex.
Day 11: Oral sex only. Pose 69 is forbidden.
Day 12: The woman dominates and tells the man what she wants.
Day 13: Bring a man to orgasm without penetration, mouth, arms and body, and bonus points bring feet and chest.
Day 14: Find a new place to have sex at home.
Day 15: Partners masturbate to orgasm.
Day 16: Try two or three advanced poses from the Kama Sutra.
Day 17: Add sex toys to sex.
Day 18: Watch a porn film together for at least 30 minutes.
Day 19: Sex without penetration. Hands, mouth, body parts and toys are allowed.
Day 20: Write each other an email with your sexual fantasies.
Day 21: Visit a sex shop together and buy one product each.
Day 22: A man should satisfy a woman but without penetration.
Day 23: Pause. A day for “ordinary” sex.
Day 24: Sexy board games: dice, cards, spin, apps, man don’t get mad…
Day 25: Let the sex last longer, ideally 45 minutes.
Day 26: Male dominates.
Day 27: Dinner at the restaurant, touching under the table.
Day 28: Day of multiple orgasms.
Day 29: Throw a coin. The winner is dominant. The loser tells the partner, “Do what you want.” Before that, choose a password that will stop you in an instant if something goes wrong.
Day 30: Stay awake all night. Choose any of the activities from the previous challenges, and it is desirable to experience five orgasms.
Day 31: Pamper and kiss, and in the end make love.