Good things happen to those who are waiting, especially if that good thing is an orgasm, and your girlfriend is that person who is waiting.
Get knowing to the edge, a sex method that involves bringing yourself (or your partner) to orgasm, and then return to your previous state and repeat this process until you allow yourself (or her) to finally reach orgasm.
According to the first statistical indicators, as many as 65.5 per cent of women believe this technique prolongs and makes orgasm more intense.
We present you with a guide that will show you how to properly apply this technique and improve your sex life:
Initial question: can you bring her to orgasm?
If you want this technique to work, you must first bring your partner to orgasm, and not just occasionally. Because if she experiences an orgasm only sporadically, this innovative method will only negatively affect her because in that case, she will be under a lot of pressure.
Do not put pressure on your partner or, in the last resort, yourself, because that will produce unnecessary tension, which will not be a good basis for this type of pleasure.
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Different women love different things
When we talk about the edging technique of gratification, there are many elements that different women have described as very as effective. But to find out what is most effective in the case of your partner, you need to try all the options. You must be on the same wavelengths in this learning process.
In one study, women found they did not like it when partners took certain steps on their own initiative, even if those movements were successful, because they were not physically or emotionally ready for those steps.
First of all, talk to her about this technique
Imagine your girlfriend brings you to the brink of orgasm and then withdraws without explanation or announcement. The edging technique is definitely not something you can try without first talking. Talk about new things in detail and you will have more success in your sex life.
Learn to bring her to the limit of orgasm
The art of the edging technique lies in the ability to bring it to the very edge of orgasm, but not to the climax. In practice, this technique is more successful when a girl herself says how close she is to orgasm instead of her partner guessing.
When it reveals to you what stage of the climax she is in, it will be easier for you to discover how quickly and strongly you need to bring her to the climax itself. In the introductory phase, even a small change has a big impact. Different movements and changes in rhythm can lead her to a perfect orgasm, but also to the ability to cool down quickly if you do things on her own. Sexual needs vary from person to person so the application of this technique depends on the affinity of the individual himself.
The most important part of edging: pause
A break in the edging technique is probably the most important and leads to a more intense orgasm. To achieve this, first, bring her to the brink of orgasm, then stop and let her return to the starting point. Do not completely remove your hands from it, but instead of touching it on the chest and other parts of the body, touch it on the intimate region. When the orgasm is completely gone, start all over again and stop at the limit of orgasm one more time. When you repeat this process several times, the partner will reach the climax more easily, and the intensity itself will be much higher.
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Delay phase
The point when you delay orgasm in the edging technique is similar to when you try to stop sneezing. Although at first, it is not a pleasant feeling, in the end, the intensity itself increases, so the experience is much more pleasant. The use of procrastination in this technique aims to bring a woman to the limit of orgasm and then take her a step back and thus create a kind of sensation in her body.
After the examination, the women revealed that this sensation is especially pronounced when their partner touches them on the inside of the thighs, the back of the knee and other intimate parts. Once she loses her orgasm, start creating others all the way to the very edge of the climax, and then repeat the whole process one more time. This is another technique that works well for women who easily reach orgasm because sudden interruptions instantly distract attention from building orgasm and redirect it to other parts of the body.
Continuous edging
Unlike the previous two methods, continuous edging, like the previous one, concentrates on your partner’s intimate region, but with less focus on the clitoris but on the region surrounding the vagina so that it cannot actually reach its climax. When this approach does not achieve its goal, return to clitoral stimulation, and then withdraw as you did before…
many women who have had experience in applying this technique believe that the best effect is achieved by small circular movements in the intimate region that increase over time.
The most common challenges and potential mistakes
- Crossing the point after which there is no return
Keeping your partner under constant sexual tension and constantly avoiding orgasm is not an easy task. If you bring it to the top too quickly, the edging technique will be too unsuccessful, so take care of the speed at which you satisfy it.
- Practice is most important
Especially for women who are trying this technique for the first time, it is uneasy to completely indulge and enjoy. The key thing is the exercise through which you will achieve a better sexual life together.
- Know when to stop
The fact is that some women cannot experience an orgasm twice, no matter how hard they try. On the other hand, some women do not like this technique and if their partners insist on new things, it can frustrate them. There is no need to insist on this technique if it does not suit her. This does not mean something is wrong with you, but only that you have different sexual affinities.