Has there been a sexual crisis in your relationship? Don’t worry, it’s happening. This does not mean that something is wrong with you, but only that you need to break the routine of making love.

Most women need more than a simple “bam-bam” approach to sex. Do they need excitement, passion, heat and a little weirdness?

Some women do not know how to start this topic just because there is a common opinion that good girls do not like “dirty sex”. Still, you would be surprised how much he treasures them.

The next time you lie on the bed instead of thinking about whether to fake a headache, try to get the answer to the question “Would you like us to try something new?” From your partner.

Here are seven weird things your girlfriend may be fantasizing about, but she’s embarrassed to tell you.

Masturbation

Masturbation is the most normal thing, so why not share it with your partner? If you are not too shy, let your girlfriend watch you while masturbating. This whole voyeuristic concept has some mystical undertone that women like. The advantage of this is that, after watching you masturbate, your partner will surely have some idea how to improve their way of satisfying you.

Anal sex

Anal sex has been practised for centuries, but lately, it has been negatively commented on. That is the reason why some couples have not yet set foot in this unknown territory and why some women are ashamed to propose anal sex to their partner. You can start slowly, with foreplay, while you are both lying on your side, with her back to you. This way is intimate, and you gradually go towards the goal. You have to remember that it is crucial that she also enjoys it. When you improve in the initial stages of anal sex, you will later be able to practice it as passionately as in the movie.

S&M

Is she a control freak? Then she might like the sadomasochistic version. This is a game where you are submissive and allow her to order and use props such as a whip or handcuffs. It can sometimes get a little painful, so before the ritual of “hot wax” or “nipple pinching” begins, come up with a code that will mean enough, so that your partner knows when to stop the action. You may be wondering what you get out of it. So in addition to allowing her to revive her sexual fantasy, you will make your lady happy and strengthen your relationship, and will also see her in a sexy, leather outfit.

Sex toys

These toys are an intriguing way to gently warm up the passions in the bedroom. You can take modest steps and start with massage oils, then bring your darling with lubricants to orgasm and finally use a vibrator.

When your exploratory spirit awakens, you will both relax and learn more about the world of sex toys… use them on her. She on you, alternately or find a way to play at the same time. However, you use sex aids. One thing is for sure – you have heated up the sexual atmosphere between the two of you.

Role-playing

If you have ever tried your hand at acting, it is ideal to show your talent in the bedroom as well. The division of sex roles is certainly number one on her fantasy list. Design your characters, get interesting costumes and let your imagination run wild… You may feel a little funny at first, but after a few rehearsals, you might like it.

Pole dancing

It’s no secret that men like to see their better half perform a sexy dance just for them. Some couples go so far as to place a dance bar in their room. Has it ever occurred to you that playing around a bar would be a good thing for your sex life? She definitely did!

Why not surprise her with one dance? Play her favourite song and let the fun begin! Feel free to practice in front of the mirror before you officially perform. Don’t worry about being a fool because she will be touched that you did it for her and it won’t matter to her that you have two left legs.

Threesome

For adventurers, the thrill of looking for an attractive woman, adding someone to their sex life can be interesting. Yes, threesomes are not just a male fantasy. Many women are intrigued by this idea. For all those who do not want another man in their bed or simply to see their girlfriend with another, do not worry, because their fantasy can be a threesome with another woman. It is important to remember that before you start choosing a third person, you need to set boundaries because this game can be risky for the relationship.