It has happened to everyone that in a cafe, restaurant or club he comes across a girl he likes very much, but he doesn’t know what to do and how to do it to win her over. Believe it or not. There are some unwritten rules for situations like this that bring unexpectedly good results in most situations. Try it. You can’t lose anything.
Excuse me, is this seat occupied?
Innocent, charming and kind. With this approach, you will show her you are considerate and that you do not mean that the empty chair next to her is necessarily free. You will also allow her to politely reject you if she is uninterested, as well as to invite you to sit next to her if she liked you.
Are you for dance?
Use this approach only if you have enough rhythm, because in that case you will amaze her with your dancing skills, so you will be able to expand your story possibly about the music or the DJ who performs at the club.
This is one of the most effective starts because women mostly hang out in clubs and like to play. One more thing, be careful not to step on it during the dance.
Can I offer you a drink?
This is definitely one of the most common sentences with which we start a conversation with girls, which is quite logical since we mostly meet them in cafes and clubs where everyone enjoys good wine, cocktails or spirits. This is the classic start of a kind gentleman.
Do you come here often? What do you think about this…
If you have a problem choosing a book or even a piece of clothing, it might be a good idea to ask for advice from a nice girl who is walking around and just looking around the store.
If you ask her for her choice and opinion at the beginning of the conversation, you will soon realize this is one of the strongest starts ever, and you will also, depending on her answer, soon understand whether you want to continue the conversation.
Sorry, can you help me with…
A great way to start a conversation with a girl you noticed in a club or cafe. Ask her for her opinion on your friends’ bet, which song is currently playing (because of course, you can’t remember.) or to help you choose a drink.
This will show her that you are interested in her opinion, reaction or source, and asking for her assistance will show her that you like her.
Don’t you think this is the place…
You can start this way in two ways. If you think the girl is delighted with the place where you met her, then ask her: “Don’t you think that this place is so cool, chic, classic?”
On the other hand, if she doesn’t seem too delighted, then ask her if she finds it boring here. An easy way to agree and have your first common topic of conversation.
You look like you’re interested in an exciting conversation
If you say this sentence in the right tone and with the right attitude, you will make her laugh, which makes this start effective, because it breaks the ice and allows you to start a spontaneous conversation on any topic, which seems acceptable to you at that moment. It can be food, drink, an event you are at, or anything else.
Would you like an escort to…
When you notice a lady is walking alone, to a table, elevator, cafe or toilet, it is a nice gesture to offer her an escort and thus make her feel safe.
Simultaneously, likely, she will not walk alone for a long time, so you have the opportunity to express all your charm and break the ice in the conversation.
Wow, I really like your outfit. What is that?
Most women prepare for the city for a few hours, so it will mean a lot to her if a man observes and praises her work. This small gesture will increase her self-confidence and of course, start a conversation.
By allowing her to talk about fashion, you show her you are interested in what she has to say to you, as well as that you are a modern man with a dose of sophistication.
I just thought you have to know you have a nice/nice…
Every woman loves compliments, so this is a sure way to start a conversation with a girl you like. Praise her smile, eyes or nose, and you can focus on a more specific compliment like the hairstyle and the way she laughs.