8 tips for one night sex

It has happened to almost everyone to get into a one-night stand sex situation. Whether they trigger hormones, maybe alcohol or something completely different, one-night stands are something that happens to everyone, and not as infrequently as it was initially thought. Here are some tips if you find yourself in such a situation.

Be honest

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Before embarking on an adventure called a “one-night stand”, you need to be sure of what you are doing. Expectations for a further relationship with a girl for a sexy night can be relatively low, which does not mean you should act like a heartless robot all night. Sex can mean a lot, but it doesn’t have to. Make sure you are both on the same “wavelength” and have similar intentions to avoid a catastrophe the next morning.

Use language…

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… By declaring everything you want and need. Part of having fun with one-night stands is doing something you don’t do often. If you are aware this is an affair for only one night, then you are freer to do whatever you want. But be sure to also forget your partner’s needs and be open try new things.

Be polite

It’s not like having tea with the queen, but remember the rule: Do to others what you want your penis to do. Be careful with your partner, not only in sex, but in the moments before, but also after sex. If it’s late, let them sleep in your bed. Avoid difficult topics, and offer tea or coffee in the morning, maybe even breakfast in bed, which is always a nice end to going out. If you’re not too hungry to say, thank you, do just that.

Departure

Speaking of morning coffee, don’t leave without saying goodbye, because you don’t want her to feel used or like she wouldn’t think she was bad in bed. Although that night may not have changed your life, if you leave without saying goodbye, you will make the whole situation a bigger drama than it is.

Three facts about one-night stands

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No matter what category you belong to, these scientific facts will help you better understand what exactly one-night stands is, and more importantly, what it is not.

The morning after I different feelings

Women and men look at casual sex completely differently. Experts conducted a study on 3,300 men and women, and the results show what we already knew in a way: men felt positive, happy and proud after one night’s sex. Women, on the other hand, mostly feel neither happiness nor pride. They described their feelings after such a relationship as shame and a feeling of cheapness.

Casual sex is associated with a bad mental state

It doesn’t mean that you are crazy or depressed if you like casual sex, but if you believe in the research of prestigious universities, you are not in an ideal state. A large percentage of people who choose casual sex as a way of socializing suffer from some form of depression or low self-esteem, and a higher frequency of casual sex has been observed in people prone to suicidal thoughts.

It’s also a matter of genetics

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Do promiscuity, and propensity for casual sex have anything to do with genetics? The conclusions are interesting! People who have a gene called DRD4 are more prone to this behaviour.

The gene affects dopamine secretion and is linked to several other disorders like ADHD and alcoholism. The result is a propensity for irresponsible behaviour, which includes casual sex with a large number of partners. Of course, this does not mean that people prone to infidelity can be drawn to this gene: experts warn sexual behaviour is influenced by many other factors.