The real timing

First of all, don’t send her sexy messages if you haven’t gone out a few times, says a data expert. Basically, stick to the following rule: if you haven’t entered the realm of sexy teasing in real life, then it’s not yet the right time to engage in sexting. This does not mean you cannot send her sexy messages if you have not had sex, but it is also very important to examine the field before sending her the first sexy SMS and to understand if she is the type of person who will enjoy and will not misunderstand this type of correspondence…

Once you have the green light, you must send her a sexy massage while she is in the right place, at the right time and in the right mood.

If you catch her in the middle of a meeting, which can be sexy if you know she’s corresponding with you while presenting an important business assignment to her boss, there’s a good chance she won’t be able to focus on her activity, and you’ll both be unhappy.

So first, ask her what she is doing at that moment, and then write her a sexy SMS.

Small initial steps

Be gentle and a little mysterious at the beginning, and here are some examples to start the correspondence:

• Thinking of you,
• I dreamed of you last night
• You’ve been on my mind lately
• I miss you
• I cannot wait to see you

After the message, wait, let her lead the game and follow her. If he answers you and asks for more details, then you have the green light.

Think of sexting as virtual foreplay. Don’t send her pictures and use too sexy a dictionary.

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Foreplay

As we have already mentioned, you must start slowly.

Write to her something like Honey, I miss you. I miss your body. I can’t stop thinking about you since last night.

Follow how they will react. And be sure to compliment her, warm her up.

And then move on to something more specific like: I can imagine your lips on mine, your fingers running through my hair. You want to tell her things which you know for sure will excite her.

A few key phrases you should use are I want you, I can’t control myself when I’m with you, I want to satisfy you.

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Guide her through sexual fantasy

Explain to her what she sees, feels, what she is doing. Imagine reading an erotic novel. Don’t rush. You may be horny before she gets into a fit of excitement.

When things heat up, then you can write something more specific to her. Ask her to tell you what she likes, ask her to repeat what you wrote to her.

Be vivid

The good dirty talk involves descriptive and concrete correspondence. The goal is to excite her.

This is a form of sex that can be used between meetings or for masturbation. Remember this is not phone sex, but sexting, so it is important you send her powerful sexual messages. You also tell her about your satisfaction and how you feel at the moment.

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Build anticipation

And finally? Leave her a little uncertain and mention the following vision. Anticipation is the strongest form of foreplay.