Because couples who communicate and trust each other with their desires and needs have sex much more often, she should be encouraged to talk about the things she wants. Meantime, to prepare you, we reveal to you the five secrets she has been concealing from you.

She likes to have sex during the cycle

In most cases, this is true, but there are rules. It can become very wet in a short time; “Niagara Falls” would be an appropriate description. Showering before sex is mandatory. Another problem you may face is a temporarily dry vagina. If he uses tampons, expect a little more uncomfortable friction, after withdrawing it before sex, and be ready to have the ointment on hand. It will warm up pretty quickly, but “dry” sex can be quite uncomfortable and painful, so don’t rush into it. The good side of sex in this situation is that she will be in a good mood – hormones are responsible for that. But don’t try to head south unless it’s your last wish, or you have some morbid, vampire fantasies. She won’t let you do that either, and will get you out of the way before you wonder what that tastes like?

She loves sex non-stop

This is acting territory. Being a man means knowing when to retreat, relax and enjoy the fruits of your labour. A satisfied girl next to you is something great, so don’t ruin your own reputation because you want to prove yourself. Yes, love machines exist, but isn’t it weird to keep them in the house? Aren’t they made of plastic and rubber? Women want a lover, not a machine. Women love orgasms just as much as men, but one is enough – let it be good. Two is a bonus (but the bonus doesn’t have to include torture and desperate moves to succeed) and after that, it all depends on the situation. You need to know when to relax and hug her, to enjoy the scent of her hair. No doubt, if she is in the mood to continue, she will tell you that.

She thinks her fingers can be uncomfortable

When using your fingers to satisfy your wife, remember that the entrance to the vagina has a large number of nerve endings, unlike the inside – use this knowledge to your advantage. The point is that she feels pleasure, so stick to certain zones: the outer entrance to the vagina, immediately inside and the G-spot. When you start manual stimulation with one finger, after tickling the entrance, gently enter the body. Start stroking the front wall of the vagina with light movements. Here you will find the G-spot. Be gentle. If she wants you to go deeper, she will show it to you by clinging to you. It may become a little uncomfortable for her if half of her hand is down, so always ask before you insert another finger. Clean, trimmed nails are a must. You can put your claws down.

She doesn’t like to try new things

There are so many things she wanted to try but never dared to say or initiate. Things he might be afraid to try: anal sex, finger play, sex in a public place, role-playing. None of this is hardcore, as you might think. Normal people do this all the time, and the results are very nice. A fun and easy way to find out what he wants to try from this is to compile a setlist and exchange papers. Make your list, look at it and study it and get started.

She is in the mood for sex in the morning

In most cases, a woman who is not in the mood will skillfully avoid this, pretending to be asleep. If you want to try a different tactic, use an erection and gently brush your vaginal lips. Repeat a few times and very likely, like a beautiful flower, it will (hopefully) open up and let you in, because you are seducing it unobtrusively. The trick to morning sex is to bring her from a dreamy state to a state of high arousal before 8 AM. Oral sex proves to be good here, but the previously mentioned trick is less complicated. Do what you think is best. The advice is to moisten the penis before you start using it. Saliva can help here. It will free you from hard work and replace the sentence: “I just woke up, and you’re already jumping on me”, with the sentence: “Mmm, that’s good”. Not everyone is a fan of morning sex, and if your girlfriend is not in the mood as soon as she gets up, there are a few steps to encourage her without making a scene. Therefore, just slowly and without haste.