Win anytime, anytime. Seduction is an art and you should be aware of that. Even Robert Green said so. But how to make this complicated thing a reality. Here are some tips that will definitely help you seduce anyone. So let’s start.

Select the right target

Choose your “targets” in detail and choose only those that can be subject to your charm. Create a false sense of security and approach them directly. Establish a neutral distance, because that way you act harmlessly. Start with banal and ordinary topics of conversation. Never mention love, and your targets will wonder why you never mention what you really feel.

Otherwise, they will think carefully about what is going on in your mind. Ultimately, they will be the ones to raise the issue of love. Concealing personal intentions gives pleasure to the game. Never reveal personal feelings. This is substantially true for the very beginning because it irritates and causes mistrust. Learn to hide your feelings and let people figure out for themselves what’s really going on.

Send mixed signals

Most people are too visible and predictable. Instead, you are a little mysterious and difficult to unravel. Send mixed signals. Be rude and gentle, spiritual and material, innocent and cunning. All at the same time. Your enigmatic aura will make people learn as much as possible about you. Do this by listing some contradictions in you. You seem to be one thing — innocent, cheeky and witty — but at the same time drawing their attention to something else. You are also naughty, happy and sad. Do it subtly. Make them think why you are so shy or sad, under all that cheeky wit, and you will have their full attention.

Make yourself desirable

Few people are attracted to people avoided or ignored by others. People gather around individuals who attract the interest of other people. To occupy your targets, you have to create an aura of desirability and demand, you have to create the illusion of popularity by surrounding yourself with friends, ex-lovers, current suitors… Make love triangles that encourage rivalry and raise your value.

Create a need

Encourage anxiety and dissatisfaction. You cannot seduce a completely satisfied person. To do that, you have to encourage feelings of dissatisfaction in them, on any basis. Subtly tell them that there is a lack of adventure in their lives, that they have wandered in the dreams of their youth, that they are stuck in a routine.

The feeling of dissatisfaction that you create in them will give you space to see you as answers to your problems. Produce a need that only you can satisfy.

Master the art of insinuation

The insinuation is the power to plant ideas in human minds, releasing subtle signals that take root days later. The target will even make it seem like their personal idea! Make bold statements followed by withdrawals and apologies. Ambiguous comments, banal conversation, combined with tempting glances, penetrating deep into the target’s mind.

Light physical contact stimulates desire, as well as a fleeting but unforgettable look and an unusually warm tone of voice. Be subtle. Your actions reveal actions, create suspicion. When you are gone, your targets will create the suspicion you hinted at.

Adapt to their spirit

Most people are locked in the personal world, which makes them stubborn and resistant to your influence. The way to get them out of their shell is to play by their rules, enjoy what they enjoy, adapt to their customs and indulge in every whim and mood of your targets.

If you behave in this way, your targets will lower their guard, open up and become sensitive to your subtle influence.

Create a temptation

Entice the target by creating certain temptations. Insight into the pleasures to come, find their weakness, the fantasy they want to realize, and subtly show them that you can bring them to that point. It could be wealth, adventure, maybe something is forbidden? The key is to keep that future and potential profit unclear and somewhat unattainable. Wave the prize in front of their eyes, postponing pleasure and leaving everything else to their imagination.

Keep them in suspense

Don’t be predictable. As soon as people know what they can expect from you, your magic over them is over. The only way to seduce is to keep the advantage and create uncertainty. Behave so that they wonder what you have in mind now. If you do something they don’t expect from you, you will create a wonderful feeling of spontaneity. They will be unable to predict what will happen next. You are always one step ahead and in control.

Use the power of words

It’s hard to get people to listen. The point is to make them listen to you and to say what they want to hear. Before you speak, ask yourself what is it that you can say that has the most pleasant feeling in the listeners? Ignite people’s emotions.

Make it compliments, influence their insecurity, wrap them in fantasies, sweet words and promises, and not only will they listen to you, but they will lose every urge to resist you.

Pay attention to detail

Jewellery, beautiful accessories, the colour of clothes blind the eyes. Focus on nice and small details rather than the big picture. The more senses involved, the better the effect. The tools you use in seduction use their own language, and it’s powerful! You have to learn to distract your targets with lots of nice details, thoughtful gifts, just for them, clothes and jewellery designed to please them, gestures that show the time and attention to please them. Also, adjust the clothes to your target, more precisely to their taste.

Poetize your presence

Familiarity destroys seduction. People want to be allowed to fantasize about you. Don’t spoil this opportunity with an excessive story and exposure, predictability or banality so that the target sees you exactly as you are. Be dangerous, a little evil or even vulgar, depending on what your target likes. But never be cheap or limited. Subtly point out that there is something unusual in you, and you will make them connect you with something great or poetic.

Disarm with strategic weakness

And vulnerability, of course. There is something seductive in every sorrow. You want to comfort another person, and that desire quickly turns into love. Allow people to occasionally look at some fragile side of your character, usually after a while they know you. That view will make you a human being and dispel their doubt and prepare the ground for a deeper attachment. You are traditionally capable and in control, but sometimes you give in to your weakness. And let them see it. That way you will disarm them.

Mix desire and reality

People spend much time daydreaming, imagining a future full of adventure, success and romance. If you manage to create the illusion that they can live their dreams with you, you will win them over. It is significant to start carefully, gaining their trust by gradually building a fantasy that fits their desires.

Aim for secret desires that are suppressed or unsatisfied. Embody the characters from their fantasies and write a script similar to the one from that person’s wishes.

Isolate the target

The hunted person is weak. By gradually isolating your targets, you make them vulnerable to your influence. You can isolate a person psychologically, with the attention you give them and squeeze everything else out of their thoughts. Then they see and think only of you.

Or physically? Take them away from their usual environment, from friends, family or home. Turn it all into a pleasant experience, and your targets will wake up one morning distanced from everything that usually comforts them. And then they will turn to you for help.

Prove yourself

Most people want to be seduced. If they resist your efforts, it’s probably because you haven’t gone far enough to allay their doubts. Most potential seducers give up too easily, confusing someone’s cold-bloodedness with disinterest. If you give up at the first sign of difficulty, it is obvious you do not want that person so much. And it may be the case that they are unsure of you or choose between you and someone else. In any case, it is absurd to give up. Indicating how far you are willing to go will overcome all doubts.

Perform a regression

Encourage people to talk about their childhood and past. Maybe, if, you discover a secret attachment to a secret person? Knowing what influenced her so strongly in that relationship, you can take on that role. Or maybe you find out about the big gap in their childhood? Fill it out! But replace the original neglect with attention or affection that the person did not have when he needed it. Everyone has some unfinished work in childhood, disappointments, shortcomings, painful memories… Finish what is unfinished.

Discover what your target never got, and you have the ingredients for deep seduction.

Encourage provocative and taboo topics

There are always social limitations to something any of us can do. If a target notices that you are leading it over any kind of restriction, it becomes immensely seductive. People crave to explore their dark side. What is, perhaps, forbidden! Take them further than they could have imagined. A common sense of guilt and complicity will create a strong bond.

Use spiritual baits

Everyone has doubts and insecurities about their body, personal value… If your seduction refers exclusively to the physical, you will encourage these doubts. Instead, get them out of the zone of insecurity by focusing them on something sublime and spiritual, a religious experience, a work of art, something supernatural. Talk about the stars, destiny, maybe the hidden threads that connect you? Stars, astrology and destinies, in most cases, are attractive topics for conversation. Conjure up the feeling that fate has just brought you together!

Mix pleasure with pain

The biggest mistake in seduction is to be too nice. At first, your kindness may be charming, but it soon becomes monotonous. You try too hard to please, which makes you insecure.

Your task is to create tension, to stimulate a feeling of uncertainty. Encourage as many emotions as possible. Be careful, and then change direction by pretending to be uninterested. Make your target feel guilty and insecure about it. Even hinting at the possibility of termination! By exposing them to reconciliation and pain, now the return to your former goodness will break them to kneel before you.

Give them space to fall

If your targets get too used to you as an aggressor, they will inject less personal energy and the tension will ease. You have to wake them up and turn the situation in your favour. Then when they are under your spell, take a step back. And then the target will start chasing you. Start with a reserved touch, an unexpected non-appearance, a hint that you are bored. Mix emotions to interest someone else. Let them feel it, and the imagination will do everything else. They will soon want to own you and will not hold back.

Use physical baits

At this stage, you need to show how your body shines with the desire for your target. The use looks, touch, a more casual tone of voice. Maybe a rude comment? She will read your wish that way. Introduce them to a moment, an intensified present in which judgment and concern for the future disappear and the body is subject to pleasure.

Master the bold moves

Once you read in the eyes of your targets that they want you, a look in the eye, an unusual nervousness in your presence, you must launch an attack, to feel their charms have forced you to make a bold move. At that time they derived the ultimate pleasure – bodily surrender.